When Life isn’t Perfect

In spite of our best efforts…regardless of our intellect, problem-solving ability, preparation, prayer, and even faith, there are times in each one’s life that are simply crummy, hard, scary, world-shaking, world-crashing and/or completely confusing.  Suffering happens. We don’t even have to look for it.

But when it happens, we can be assured we are not alone in it.  We are not meant to be alone at those times when we hurt most and feel most vulnerable.

We believe strongly in the healing power of relationship and community, and we strive to make LEM a place where those who are in need feel welcome and can find support and guidance. We encourage you to join us for worship or contact one of the chaplains for one-on-one conversation. The list below includes resources we often share with people, as well as links to articles and resources that might be of help to you if you aren’t able to get together with us in person.

Please let us know if you do use something on this list and tell us if it was helpful so we can continue refining this resource!

Talking with a Chaplain:

Kari Jo and Thea are available to hear about whatever may be troubling or burdensome, and they listen with the ear of the heart, not to criticize or to judge, but to be a compassionate companion in the difficult times.  Conversation with chaplains is confidential. Feel free to call, whether or not you are active in LEM; we are here to serve the whole MIT community. –

         Kari Jo (Lutheran Campus Pastor), 617-253-2325
         Thea (Episcopal Campus Minister), 617-253-2983.

How to help a friend who is overwhelmed

MIT Medical offers this helpful guide to help you think through how to talk to and support a friend in need.   http://web.mit.edu/medical/pdf/distress.pdf