Date: Thu, 18 Sep 1997 14:53:08 -0500 From: Rumbley Subject: FILLER: Intro and comment Hi writers. I am new - to writing, to the net, to the list and to the flames. Vitals: Jim Rumbley, mostly retired, living in rural Missouri (just got the long distance as local-call monthly plan -- next year, maybe indoor plumbing). I drive a bookmobile part-time for a small regional library. I smoke, I drink, I'm opinionated, and I don't eat healthy if I can help it. I am not easily provoked. Oh yes, I have had a vasectomy--voluntarily--and it wasn't life or death. That should cover the essentials. Comments: I've been lurking for a while. I arrived just in time for the great herbivore-carnivore-omnivore skirmishes which were immediately followed by the futile abortion debate. Not a pretty sight. I had decided to unsubscribe, when "beanie" appeared. I liked "him" so much, I decided such postings might make it worth the effort to wade through the flaming hate mail. Hopefully the wars are over now. I offer this newbie observation: when "discussions" deteriorate to personal attacks and name calling, it is generally a sign that the participant has run out of words to bolster their argument. Since this list is about words and writing (I think), when you reach this point, I suggest that you either consider the argument lost and hold your tongue (keyboard?) or gracefully withdraw by posting that the discussion has run it's course and you will post no more on the topic. One-sided arguments don't last long in my experience. If you have to be hateful, consider spewing your venom directly and privately. In my case, to jrrum@fidnet.com, but don't expect to offend me--I'm positively pachydermatous--and don't expect an answer in kind. I'm still a lurker at heart. One last thought: "Good Fences Make Good Neighbors" - Robert Frost. I am a writer. Now, does anyone know the other eleven steps? Be warned: I never tell a lie. Jaelar